My father turned eighty years old today. Hard to believe. I think of my Dad as never changing. There are so many things about my father that I appreciate, but here is a smattering:
- His commitment to his kids. My father supported me and encouraged me throughout my life and still does.
- His sense of humor – while some of the jokes and statements gets very repetitive over time, he is always full of life.
- His wicked memory – his mind is sharp as a tact. He can remember things in my life that I can’t remember. Sometimes they get embellished over time, but at least they are somewhat factual. He competes on Jeopardy and can give Debsue a run for her money in knowledge of useless facts.
- His active life – he is still plays tennis, golf, bridge. He has always been active. It was really tough to see him a few years ago on the sidelines with a torn Achilles tendon. But he came back in record time and has been back on the courts. He reminds me that he keeps moving up the rankings in tennis and I remind him back that the older he gets the more he will by attrition move up the rankings.
- His eccentricity – my father is quite different in a fun sort of way. If you talked to my dad, you would never know that he has a Phd, law degree, and masters degree. Not that you wouldn’t think he is smart, but he comes across as quirky fun, not snobbish.
While we are far apart, I never feel completely apart from my father. I know he is there for me. I love you Dad!!
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